Yes.. For convenience, because of the crop factor. People can associate focal length because it's printed on the lens. Angle of view is not printed on the lens. But focal length is NOT what determines DOF. Angle of View is. 2 different things. 2 lenses made by 2 different makers that have the same focal lengths can have differing angle of view. This is illustrated between the Panasonic 25mm f/1.4 and the Olympus 25mm f/1.8 where one is actually slighter wider in angle of view as opposed to the other. Another example also would be the Nikkor 70-200 VR2 and the Nikkor 70-300 VR where at 200mm, one is also slightly wider than the other as well.
A combination of sensor size, lens focal length, physical aperture opening (or f-stop which is ratio of FL to aperture opening), distance from camera to subject, and magnification/print size determine DOF and background blur. If you change any of these variables (yes, even magnification) you change DOF as it is classically defined.
AOV is (not unlike the f-ratio) simply a calculation you can make when you know other fixed, physical variables. Specifically, focal length and sensor size.
The variance examples you give are due to two things:
1. The focal length for some lenses changes from MFD to infinity, this is due to the lens elements moving around and the focal length physically changing, common with zooms but also true for lenses with very long focus throw like macro lenses.
2. Focal lengths are rounded to the nearest common increment. The 70-200mm may only be ~170mm at the long end in reality.
When you see variances in the above two, the AOV varies as well. Angle of view is intrinsically tied to focal length, these are not the same thing but they are absolutely tied together. For instance, you can't have a 12/2 on an EM1 that has an 84° AOV and a 12/4 on an EM1 that has a 64° unless the focal length listed on the 12/4 is wildly inaccurate.
Angle of view does not exist on its own, you need to know the sensor size to know the AOV. Focal length on the other hand is absolute and can be physically measured, and does not vary when you use the same lens on difference sensor sizes.
Now, back to the original question, if it hasn't been answered sufficiently yet:
In no uncertain terms, the difference in DOF for the same AOV and same distance to subject between M43 and APS-C is about 2/3 stops, it's ~0.6 vs Canon and ~0.7 vs Nikon/Sony/everyone else who use slightly larger APS-C sensors than Canon.
This means that a 25mm 2.0 on M43 will produce roughly the same DOF as a 35mm 2.5 on APS-C. Or a 42mm 1.4 will produce the same DOF as a 56mm 1.8.
There are also two ways to look at light gathering (per area which determines noise/total light and per unit (ie mm²) which determines exposure), but people tend to get quite upset when this is brought up so I will say no more.