This happens to me 80% of the time I bid on Ebay. So, all the EM-5s are going for about $600. I pick ONE and pop a $400 bid down. How come the one *I* bid on only goes for $460? Had I known that it would have gone that low I would have bid higher. When I bid $400 I wasn't actually expecting to win it! It's amazing how sooooo frequently when I bid on ebay there is only ONE other guy bidding. Never two, just me and him. And every time I lose a bid, it's only by a small margin; and the other guy always gets a deal. We were talking about this in another thread and in all honesty, I think the EM-5 did NOT sell for $460. I think the seller has two accounts and is up to some funny business. And I think a lot of ebay sellers do the same. If I had $510 I guarantee someone would have bid $550. Believe it or not, however, I learned how to not get upset by things like this by dealing with GFs. You ever get in a fight with a girl you're dating and then you reach the point where you either A) be nice or B) tell her to screw off? And EVERY SINGLE TIME you tell a girl to screw off she's like, "Well, I WAS going to try to make it work with you until you told me to screw off." Well, that statement is a lie! They just use that as a reason to make you feel worse. And that's how I feel about Ebay. Even if you do bid higher, you're still not going to get what you want!